Profession
Business Management
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
About Me
I presume the reason I get so few messages is due to my BBW status. I have the "urge" to try and get across what some of you are missing by only looking at my physical characteristics. Though I would really love to lose some of this gained weight - it hasn't been medically possible. Two years of steroids, and extreme muscle weakness prevent a whole host of activities. On a lighter note, I see the end is near. No more steroids and a pending cervical surgery will hopefully fix the problems going on in my brain. Scarry tho it is, I'm looking forward (after almost three years of being undiagnosed) to getting it behind me. I haven't always been a BBW (not trying to fool anyone - I've never been petite.....but never like this either) and give me a year after surgery and I won't be again. I do understand a lot men are "repulsed" by BBW's - however - there are some that look past that. Given that I like me just fine and am quite comfortable in my own skin....the outward appearance says nothing about me as a person. What are you missing in not getting to know me? I am loving, kind, devoted to what I believe in, loved my Harley, (sold it recently, but will have another), confident, self sufficient, independent, and I enjoy most anything when there is someone else to do it with. I love the mountains, the sea, gardening, animals, children, my job, spending hours trying to catch that elusive fish, getting "lost" in Maine for a day, imagining my future filled with grandchildren and the love of my life. I'm passionate about commitment and fidelity.
I enjoy meeting new people and always look forward to tomorrow and a new adventure.
Who am I looking for.....? Someone who will love me just the way I am.....for now and either join me or offer encouragement as I move forward to a new and healthier me. For "posterity purposes" - I am posting a view of me taken just two years ago......so you can see what I "normally" look like. Obviously, the "main" pic is a "before" - the rest are now.
First Date
Hopefully, no pressure for a "formal" date on a first meeting - just grab a coffee, go to a favorite place (yours or mine), and talk 'till we're done. See what we might have in common and go from there.......
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